We blinked and this happened:
Seven-year-old Clementine is so fantastic. She is wise beyond her years, with a keen observation just when you think she isn’t listening. She is incredibly aware of those around her and their emotions, often pointing out to us when a friend (or more often, her sister) is feeling something or acting in a way we didn’t realize. She lets friends get the last word (or bigger half of the cookie) because she doesn’t really care and it’s important to them. But she points out things that ARE important to her (and are our fault) so we’ll learn from them – like admonishing me for letting her read in the car after it made her puke last week!
She is also hilariously witty, with a zinger that will get you every time! When Marco (bringer of after-school treats) came over with a bruise on his face, explaining how he’d tripped running an errand, she sized him up and asked, “Well – did it knock the candy out of you?” And when a sales person (on December 30th) presented her with an ornament as a special “gift with purchase,” she replied with a raised eyebrow and a “isn’t it a little late for that?” without missing a beat.
Clementine’s sharpness overflows into her academic work, where she’s somewhere between a 3rd and 4th grade level in math and flies through chapter books every few days (current favorite author: Erin Hunter). Her favorite subject in school is science, and we encourage it whenever we can (her birthday present this year – a rock tumbler). But she isn’t showy about it or “known” for her academics in school (other than her top notch report cards) – instead she’s known in school as being the best hugger around.
When I asked Clementine what she was going to work on as a 7yo, in fact, she told me she was going to try to tone down her hugging. She really has no understanding of personal space, which tends to either instantly endear or annoy anyone she is with. We’re hoping her general social awareness will soon start to work its way into her physical awareness and she’ll get the hang of when NOT to hang on a friend or relative (or relative stranger, for that matter). In general, Clem has a lot of habits that lean toward annoying – like making little animal noises or speaking in crazy voices, constantly hopping and fidgeting and reacting – but we’ve been making her more aware (it’s about acting more like a “big kid”) and they seem to be subsiding. For the most part, she can charm just about anyone she decides to, wrapping them around her little finger before they even see it coming.
Clementine is more of a homebody than an adventurer. Annabelle can get her out exploring, but if you ask what she wants to do, an art/lego/building project, book or board game often beats outdoor play or athletic adventures (though she does enjoy gymnastics and riding her bike), pasta & red peppers always beats out a restaurant, and she opts for a playdate at her house if she can help it (though sleepovers are preferred at Charlie’s because his mom makes better breakfasts). We’re hoping she’ll get a *bit* more adventurous this year – especially in the area of eating (maybe she’ll start to mix foods? Or not rebel against sauces? Or stick her nose up at any fruit of vegetable that doesn’t look perfect?). But since the 12 foods she eats are actually pretty healthy (fruits, raw veggies, eggs, cheeses, yogurts), we aren’t too worried.
Clem still says she’d like to be a marine biologist when she grows up, but I think she says it out of habit (we explained the profession to her a few years ago when she was obsessed with sea creatures). At this point, I have no idea what her future holds. But I know that with her wisdom and wit, awareness and charm (not to mention that face!), she’s going to do just fine.
Happy SEVEN to my “toonts,” Marc’s “pea,” and Annabelle’s Clem – our lovely Clementine Jane!