Seven.3 and Ten.3

What a month! I’m a little late in posting – my excuse is 2 San Francisco trips, a girls weekend in Dallas, a nasty cough/bug, and most importantly, our first Davis Family international trip! Before I get into the details for each kid, just a note about that trip – what an adventure! I kind of love that the girls’ first passport stamp was not to some resort or English speaking vacation. We hit the experience head on visiting one of the largest cities in the world, full of beauty and danger and confusion and simplicity – Ciudad de Mexico, or CDMX as we now know it. And yes – Clementine survived only on the cheese inside of quesadillas (she didn’t even like real Mexican tortillas or… gasp… churros!), yes – we may have briefly found ourselves in the middle of a playground gang fight (note – some playgrounds are friendlier than others), and yes – Annabelle got an insane nosebleed in the middle of the city that actually shot blood out of her eyeball (did you know how high altitude and polluted CDMX is?). BUT we also climbed the 3rd tallest pyramid in the world, spent the afternoon on a canal “party boat” in Xochimilco, haggled our way through many mercados, ate some ridiculous $1 tacos, and practiced our Spanish to hilarious but generally useful effect.
Now onto these individual wonders:

Clementine, Seven and a Quarter
Keeping with the Mexico City intro, I was really impressed with how Clem handled this trip. She walked and climbed and rarely complained about being tired or subsisting on cheese or not getting certain souvenirs or treats. The Thornbughs joined us, and when those boys had near daily meltdowns about things not going their way, she rolled with it. There was the occasional tear or whine, but for the most part she knew her responsibility to “suck it up” and keep on keeping on.

In other Clementine news, this happened!! It’s a very light prescription, really only needed to watch movies or shows but since it was covered by insurance, we decided to get a pair made. She loves them!

On a more social/emotional front, Clem has been having a little trouble with some friends lately. Two examples – she has one friend who is a classic “mean girl” and queen bee – and calls Clem her best friend. This is EXACTLY what happened to Annabelle in K, 1 and 2 and is one of the reasons we were excited to have her skip a grade. This girl makes Clementine say she likes her best, stops talking to her for no reason, and even secretly causes damage to her things when she comes for playdates! We’ve spoken to the teacher and to other parents who have had trouble with her, but it really weighs on Clementine because when things are good, they get along great! We’re hoping the situation will diffuse and we can make sure not to be in the same class for 2nd grade, but the complex social conversations coming out of it have shown a real struggle, especially because Clementine is such an empath.

Another example is that some boys she was playing with stuck a penny in an electrical outlet, causing flames and scorching! The boys’ parents scolded them, but Clementine was horrified and told me it brought up “gramma feelings” of how worried and scared she was that her buddy could’ve gotten really hurt. She was so scarred by the experience that she asked if she could draw a picture of what happened to get out her feelings. How new age is that?

I don’t remember 7 being so complicated. But I’m so proud of our wise girl for navigating the emotions and intricacies as they come!

Annabelle, Ten and a Quarter

I know I’m late on the post, but if I hadn’t waited I wouldn’t be able to announce that Annabelle just lost her LAST BABY TOOTH. Everyone celebrates the first one, but the last one definitely brings mixed emotions! I guess our baby really is growing up. She even fit into grown-up glasses at Warby Parker!

Speaking of growing up, the most anticipated decision of the year has been made – Annabelle is headed to Kealing Magnet Middle School in the fall! Kealing is the most academically rigorous school, focusing on all subjects but known for their math and science opportunities. Marc and I are sure this is the right school for Annabelle, but it has been a tough process because most of her best girl friends are going to different schools (a lot of them going to the same one). FOMO is TOUGH at this age, but she is handling it well.

In other growing up news, Annabelle just had the “puberty talk” with her friends (it’s not taught in Texas public schools so one of the moms organized it on the weekend). YIKES! Granted, most of these girls are a little older since she skipped a grade, but still… it’s on the horizon. She has even started wearing athletic bras under her clothes! Ack!

All that said, she’s still mostly the quirky kid we know so well. For example, she’s currently on a mission to get a pet rat, and you should see the work she is putting in (stepping up chores, giving use presentations, trying to train Eddie). Our current party line is “no more living things till the fish die.” After that, we’ll move to “no more living things till we see whether you actually have time to care for them in middle school.” I’m not sure where we’ll go from there. I hate to say it, but her lobbying has started to convince me! That should show you what a great negotiator she is:

We’ll see where that goes. In the meantime, we are busy wrapping up the school year (girls), working our tails off (parents), and looking forward to all of the chaos and fun the summer will bring!

Seven.2 and Ten.2

The Davis Daughters (and their parents) have been busy as ever this past month! Here’s the update:

No major surprises from this love bug, but she is growing into her older self so beautifully. Her teacher conference was adorable this month. Ms. Nuncio basically started laughing about how wonderful she is. She’s about 3 grades ahead of the next-nearest 1st grader in Math, and is even doing really well in her Spanish reading and writing. When we mentioned that Clementine was a little bummed she hasn’t yet won a “super citizen” award, the teacher laughed – the problem is that Ms. Nuncio tends to award that prize to a kid who is uncharacteristically great one week and Clementine is ALWAYS great. When we asked Clem if she wanted us to discuss anything specific at her conference, she told us that her worksheets are way too easy and she’d like harder ones, but she understands “Ms. Nuncio has a LOT of kids to work with so I don’t want to make extra work for her – you can tell her not to worry about it.” Ms. Nuncio laughed even harder at this – she’s just so aware of and empathetic toward those around her. And ethical! The other day she told me, “Mama, Diane told me not to tell you something but I just CAN’T keep it from you – we always get hot cocoa while Annabelle’s at her Hebrew lesson.” Not the best secret keeper, but an A for honesty!

Of course, Clementine isn’t ALL roses. She still gets bored and impatient when we’re doing something she isn’t keen on (like staying at a restaurant when she’s done eating), especially if she’s tired. There is only one brand of socks and shoes that doesn’t drive her crazy, and lots of clothes are too scratchy for her to wear. And she still is terrible about trying new foods (or any foods mixed with other foods, or involving a condiment of any kind), which gets annoying. And she still gets distracted SO easily when you ask her to complete a task. If I didn’t call up “Almost ready?” 3+ times while she’s getting ready for bed, she would spent an hour doing everything BUT get ready, forgetting that this was the task at hand.

But all in all… she’s the best 🙂

And then there’s this one:

Annabelle’s teacher conference was equally, comically wonderful. Same thing – Mr. Bustillos laughing, saying there’s really nothing negative he can say about her. Other parents telling me they spent a long time talking about Annabelle at THEIR conference, as a role model for their children. At school she is a leader, a participator, a great friend, a top student, and just FUN. She’s still not the empath that her sister is (she is SO stuck in her own head), but she gets better at this each year.

Annabelle always dives deep into her interests, and lately the top two (while gymnastics and reading are still up there) are fashion design and archery. She finally took a 2-part tunic-making class at JoAnn fabrics and learned everything that actually goes into garment making. It was humbling (I think she had to create and scrap her collar piece 4 times and needed a LOT of instructor help), but it did not discourage her – she’s sewing more than ever now!

In Archery, being “in her own head” has definitely been a great thing, as she advanced into the 18 meter class last week – indoor tournament distance. This is actually a really big deal according to others at the club. She is one of the youngest ever to make it to this distance (you’re not allowed to even start archery till age 8), and the coaches are very excited about her progress and potential. They think if she’s really serious, she could work toward a national ranking, want us to get her a good bow, want her to start coming 3-4 days/week, and want her to enter her first tournament in November! Of course, this is all exciting, but also expensive and logistically challenging. So we’ve been talking with her about it – does she like it more than all of her other activities? Does she really WANT to put in that time? Is she ready to be as patient as you need to be at this level? We’re giving her a few months to figure this out before we start investing too much time and money…. so stay tuned!

 

This next month should be a big one Chez Davis. On Saturday we’ll take the kids to Mexico City for spring break – their first international trip. And by the time we get back, Annabelle will have heard from the middle schools she applied to! Stay tuned…

Seven.1 and Ten.1

I’m a day late and a dollar short (or at least, only offering a short blog post since last month’s were big) but at long last, here is a monthly for both of our astounding children! In good news, the wait means you get actual DATA about these girls, since today was their Well Child Checkup. As per usual, Annabelle is off the charts for height (~98th percentile) and Clementine is at the 80th percentile, and they both are at a healthy weight.

Clementine:

The things that come out of this girl’s mouth. I’m going to just copy/paste a couple that Marc recently put on Facebook, but there are dozens more to choose from:

Clem (after hearing Siri completely botch adding dish detergent to my shopping list): “I bet we’ll be dead by the time robots destroy the world.”

Clem: “I never thought I’d say this, but I don’t like these French fries.”
Me (not really thinking): “OK, eat 3 more and you can be done.”
Clem: “and I never thought YOU would ever say that!”

The quick wittedness was born in her, but it has to be helped by the reading. We now have to force Clem to go to bed ~3 hours after we tuck her in because she cannot stop devouring books. Getting her an online subscription to the Austin Library (the girls’ favorite place) means she can download books at any hour, and she does. We’re hoping soon she’ll learn how to gauge when she is tired, because there have been some ZOMBIE mornings after reading marathons (that we only discover the next morning because WE’VE gone to bed).

Reading is clearly Clem’s superpower (like her sister), but she seems good at just about everything in school. She won the Science Fair (1st grade) by a landslide (“Turbo Taters: How many potatoes would it take to power a car?”), and here she was proudly displaying her mid-year “Star Student” award – given to the top 2 kids in each class:

Annabelle:

I got a call from the principal the other day – Annabelle had invented a game called “Humanback riding” at recess and had dozens of kids participating (even boys!), which her old teacher didn’t mind. Well, her new teacher apparently found the activity dangerous and told the kids they had to stop “because if you get hurt your parents will think it’s my fault.” Annabelle decided to “fix” this problem by creating forms parents could sign saying it wouldn’t be Ms. Salinas’s fault if something happened. Frankly if I’d thought about it, I would have asked more questions before signing the form (there was a lot going on that day – it was also science fair, work was crazy, Grammagarmpacharlie were visiting, etc.) but I just went ahead and signed it and next thing I knew, the principal was asking me to “please respect the teacher’s wishes.” Oops.

Along with Humanback riding, Annabelle has been even more gung ho about fashion design lately.  I helped her rearrange her room to turn her nook into a sewing studio, and she has already made herself some clothes (including a neoprene cape she wore to school). She is very reluctant to use a pattern (much like she usually refuses to bake with a recipe) but we are forcing her to take a class at JoAnn Fabrics in a few weekends, to save her from herself (we try to explain that she needs to know the basics before improvising, but this is not in her personality).

Annabelle also continues to rise to the top of her class (5th grade version of Star Student is A Honor Roll). In about 6 weeks. we’ll know whether all of this excelling gets her into one of her top choice magnet schools. Applications are in, so now we just wait!

Time seems to be flying by as these girls are in such a beautiful age sweet spot. Funny and fun and interesting and loving, and very rarely challenging. It feels like they are growing up fast, though. The other day, they wanted to hold a meeting – because booking one of the state-of-the-art meeting rooms was one of the few things they HADN’T taken advantage of in the new library. So Annabelle booked the room but I had a surprise for them – an actual topic to meet about:

“Where should we go for Spring Break?”

The day before, we’d had a surprise – our house was booked for 4 days of SXSW (which meant we both have the budget to travel and are required to vacate). With March coming up soon, all flights booked or crazy expensive out of Austin, and limited budget/time to do something interesting, Marc and I figured out 3 options that we posed to the girls – see the Texas sites (NASA museum in Houston, Doseum in San Antonio, etc.), visit Uncle Robbie in LA, or take our first international trip to Mexico City (flying out of Houston). Marc projected images as I explained – LA would not include Disney (budget!), and Mexico would have to be a real “big kid” trip – seeing the stuff we ALL wanted to see, not going to trampoline parks and pools and zoos for kids). Texas would include staying at fun hotels with pools.

To our surprise, they dismissed us as they discussed amongst themselves (Gramma & Grampa Charlie got to be flies on the wall). When we returned, they’d written up their own questions on the whiteboard – “What will Clem eat?” for example. The whole process was adorably grown up, and we were thrilled when they decided on Mexico City. And even more, we are thrilled that our kids are at an age where an adventurous trip somewhere only Annabelle speaks the language feels totally manageable! Clementine will probably spend 4 days eating nothing but tortillas, but that’s part of the adventure 🙂

 

Six.11 and Nine.11

<WARNING! PHOTOS ARE NOT UPLOADING INTO THE BLOG! YOU’LL HAVE TO JUST PICTURE THEIR ADORABLENESS ON YOUR OWN….>

I can’t believe these girls are on the brink of 7 and 10! It’s been a very busy time to say the least (prepping for the holidays, Marc spending time with Grampa Skip in Ithaca as he recovers from his stroke, me organizing an “adopt a family” program for 50 families at the school, some giant Kinsa projects and new Moment cars to tackle, etc.). So I’m going to keep this one short and save the rest for the big birthday notes J

Clementine at Six.11 is a reading machine! She walks around, up and down stairs and crossing streets (yes we’re working on this) with her nose in a book all the time, and is often found simply sitting on her bed to take on another chapter. This month her favorites were Erin Hunter’s “Warriors” books. Clem also said goodbye (with a little help from us) to two more teeth this month! This is especially good because she was growing “shark teeth” behind them. I was SURE she was going to follow in my footsteps and need all her baby teeth pulled, and am so glad she hasn’t had to yet.

Annabelle at Nine.11 has finally found her groove with her 5th grade teachers and has been killing it academically, often being the only one in class to pull off 100’s on big tests. We think she feels the heat of middle school magnet applications (we’ve now visited all the ones she’s applying to and she’ll complete the applications over winter break) and is really rising to the occasion. She also continues to amaze us with her daily (at least!) projects. Examples: I refused to buy an advent calendar (this Jew has to draw the line somewhere!) so she made an advent totem pole. I dragged her to Clem’s 30 minute swim lesson and she used it to create a lego stop motion animation. She really wanted a Santa hat so she made it herself out of paper, cotton balls, hot glue and a headband between dinner and bedtime.

These girls are on the brink of so much. It’s sort of unfathomable to me how big (and incredible) they are getting, but I’ll leave the sap till next month! For now, happy “almosts” to our two favorite humans on earth!

Nine.10

Nine and three quarters and already SO grown up! I mean, she even wore a blazer to school the other day as she wowed the crowd giving her student council election speech. That’s right, this girl apparently won the School Historian position (yes, we didn’t know that was a thing either) by a landslide!

Annabelle continues to blow us away all the time. Of course, this is an important time for her to be blowing EVERYONE away, as these coming months (and applications which are due in Jan/Feb) will determine if she gets into the very competitive magnet middle school programs she’s been gunning for from the start. She has her heart set on either The Ann Richards School (for Future Female Leaders) or Kealing, the most rigorous math & science magnet, and it’s pretty cutthroat but we’re confident she’ll do well.

Annabelle’s sleep hasn’t really improved at home, though she’s gotten much better at other places, having survived several sleepovers in the past month. This week will be the ultimate test as the 5th graders take their long anticipated “senior trip” to Camp Champions – which will include 2 nights away from home with only friends and teachers. She is “slightly terrified” in her words, but excited too. She just needs to channel her inner Katniss Everdeen and she’ll do great!

(adorable Lady Liberty thrown in to show that BOTH our girls were determine to dress as strong women this Halloween – which we loved).

Nothing else is new in Annabelle’s world – still obsessed with her friends, gymnastics, and archery, and reading as always. Still tough and confident on the outside (you should have seen her pitching at the Business fair – she was shockingly good!) while anxious on the inside.  A little happier with her teachers than she was at first, but they won’t be ranking in her Travis Heights favorites list. Still strong and tall, though at a year younger than her friends, we’re starting to see her fall a little behind as the girls tiptoe into puberty (must admit I’m glad we’re a little behind on this one). Still SO messy. And still a phenomenal kid, with a phenomenal way at looking at the world that makes us proud every day.

Six.8 and Nine.8

Here we are – 1st and 5th grade!

The girls have had a pretty good start to the school year. It began with a solar eclipse on the first day of school (does it get better than that?)  but then wasn’t without its bumps and bruises, with Hurricane Harvey throwing us for a loop including 18 hours of no power and a 2-hour-start delay. Of course we certainly can’t complain about that, given what our poor neighbors in Houston and the coast have gone through.  But also, the teacher situation has been a little tough – Annabelle says her teacher (new to the school this year) “has no sense of humor” and Clementine’s teacher’s mother died right before school started, leaving Clem with a substitute for the first 8 days. Still – they are happy to be back in school, happy to be back with their friends (even more friends, now that the Thornburgh boys have joined Travis Heights!), and starting to get back into the swing of things.

#1 Clementine Update: We’ve finally lost that narwhal tooth!

You can see from the tear that it was slightly traumatic, involving Annabelle’s knee and a whole lot of blood… but she was thrilled with the end result (including $5 bucks from a certain fairy) and her big tooth is already on its way down like a giant iceberg in her little mouth full of chiclets!

#1 Annabelle Update:

Despite complaints about teachers and slight regression on the sleep front (poor kid – this is never going to be easy, is it?), Annabelle has already won the first “Super Citizen Award” of the year (“for her wonderful focus in the classroom”) and has already had something like 6 playdates in 10 school days:

But this month, the biggest update of all is not about a Davis Daughter at all – it’s about the Dada they are extra proud of because he has officially launched his new business!

We celebrated properly at hot rod night at the Top Notch, filling ourselves with milkshakes and fried pies and rockabilly music amid throngs of old, smelly gas guzzling cars.

All in all, the girls are doing as well as ever, excited about all of the fun of fall – picking out Halloween costumes (Clem is pretty firm on a wolf, but Annabelle is fluctuating between an eagle and Katniss Everdeen) and getting back into their favorite activities (including adding Hebrew for Annabelle since she has decided she’d like a bat mitzvah). When they have free time, they spend it building legos or magnatile villages for their stuffies, or reading as usual (Clem just finished Mrs. Frisby and the rats of NIMH; the school librarian has found a new stack for Annabelle), They’ve already planned their joint birthday party (a Project Runway theme where Annabelle’s friends are the designers and Clem’s friends are the models), and have already started lobbying for a pet hamster for Christmas. In other words, things are as crazy as ever at the Davis house, which is perfectly fine with us!

Nine.7

This girl! Fun, Fearless* (*except at night), and Flexible! Case in point – this is her getting comfortable on the couch:

In fact, this girl is so flexible… and strong… and hard working, that we just got word that she passed another level of gymnastics! The instructors at the gym are pretty blown away – most kids spend at least a year in each level and Annabelle has blown through two in half that time. And the skills are legit – like front and back handsprings, big moves on the bars, etc! I don’t know where this is going (especially when she really starts growing) but for now, it’s really great for her body, her mind, her confidence… just maybe not her hair (always tangled) or our living room (constantly strewn with mats and makeshift bars and beams). One direction I’m excited for her to take it (she is very interested) is yoga! While her sleep has much improved – she doesn’t need us upstairs to fall asleep, has survived a couple babysitter experiences and even a nearby sleepover – her therapist thinks yoga could be a great way to calm her mind before bed. In the meantime, Eddie continues to take his job as “bed therapy dog” very seriously. (I know, it’s not an Annabelle pic but I couldn’t resist! Poor Eddie never gets posts)

Along with advancements in sleep/anxiety (though we’ve still definitely got room for improvement) and gymnastics have come some pretty great strides in archery – her other favorite activity! The beginner bow she got as a gift (that started all this) no longer works at her level (since you can’t attach a sight or stabilizer to it) and she has advanced to 13.5 meters, from 9. I’ve advanced along with her, and we have been having a really fun time making this our special Mama-Annabelle activity:

In other words, sometimes it seems like there’s nothing this kid can’t do. With her anxiety (and still some room for improvement on the empathy scale – she is still SO in her own head!) as her only Achilles Heel, she seems to be leaping through life, narrowing her interests in the most interesting ways. For example, now she wants to be a military and spy fashion designer as her future career – designing non-obvious armor and weaponry. She thinks it’s the perfect combination of her warrior nature and her love of inventing/designing/building. In some ways I can’t believe that our little warrior will be starting her final year of elementary school in less than a month, but in others I feel like she is moving so fast, her actual age barely has time to catch up! All I know for sure is we love every bubbly bit of her!

Nine and a Half

At 9.5 years old, this kid has it all….

… but what’s it all about? After a month of working with an awesome therapist on what we thought was just sleep issues, it’s been confirmed that she is having a bit of an existential crisis. Her anxious mind races at night thinking about the fact that at some point, everybody dies, etc. In good news, this seems to be improving… and in better news, she is happy as a lark by day!

Annabelle has had the most fantastic first month of summer. Each week, each camp has been her favorite, and she’s been loving them all! She moved up to the more advanced riding group at her Rio Vista Farm camp and even secured a 1st place medal in the end-of-week show:

And her experience at the camp she’d been begging to go to for years (it starts at age 9)- Camp Halfblood, a literally camp based on the Percy Jackson series of books – was beyond her wildest dreams!

When not at camp, she is totally thrilled as long as she is concocting some scientific slime, coming up with a wild plan, practicing strength training (for gymnastics or to get on her favorite TV show – American Ninja Warrior, tied with Cupcake Wars), or building her latest version of a fort (this was how she watched a movie the other night):

She is also as committed to her friends as ever, and her ability to hang with kids of any age has maybe only grown stronger! While she will forever choose her 9 and 10 year old buds, she jumps at the chance to play with two of her biggest neighbor fans, Travis (age 5) and William (4). She was in heaven (as was he) when William asked to come to her horse show, cheered her on like crazy and even brought flowers:

What a cool age this is. Annabelle is still happy doing little kid stuff, but with such big thoughts. She has one more year in elementary school, but she is also chomping at the bit to attend her first place middle school, Kealing (crossing fingers and toes she gets in – that process starts in 6 months). She has narrowed down her zillion top interests to archery and gymnastics, where she told me her goal is “to graduate from the recreational level to the competitive level one day” (challenging but realistic). She is a shrewd savor and money maker, but she saves up for things like magnetic dart boards, not makeup (and first tries to build one herself). Her fashion sense is a combination of “warrior” and “comfortable” – and has NOTHING to do with brands or labels. And she’s lost all but 3 of her baby teeth… but isn’t quite ready to sport the middle school braces look. Her months as a kid (and not a tween & beyond) are numbered… and we’re savoring every minute of them.

Six.5 and Nine.5

On the cusp of their half-birthdays, these girls have finished up two excellent school years! They are so bright, talented, sociable and fun, we just can’t get enough:

Clementine:

This girl lives in the moment, and her instantaneous ideas and reactions are SO SPOT ON! Her first year at Travis Heights was fantastic in every way. She got top academic marks the whole way, but her behavior went from pretty mediocre (“age appropriate” according to her teacher) to exemplary, improving every quarter. At the very end she started getting in trouble a bit for shenanigans with her bestie Stella, until we had a chat about it, she wrote down on her “to do” list “Be good at school” – and rocked the final weeks of the semester. And then celebrated with Stella and her other favorite new buddies (left to right – Rose, Poppy, Stella and Micah)!

By the end of the year she KNEW she rocked it. Before walking into her awards ceremony, she told us in a matter-of-fact but non-braggy way, “You know, I’m so good at every subject that I hope they just give me the Star Student Award – since I’m running out of bulletin board space.” Sure enough, she got it. She also, after NOT receiving a perfect attendance medal, turned to us and exclaimed, “I think they should do away with those medals. I mean, if you miss school you are already feeling bad because you are sick – why do they need to remind you about it?” And I have to agree with her!

At the end of Kindergarten here’s what we know about Clementine:

  • She loves doing well in class. She tends to get everything right but does NOT like to rush, so the only tests she falls short on are timed speed-tests.
  • She loves music. She plays it constantly, still loves piano (unlike her sister), turns on music the second she gets home from school, and sings along without a hint of embarrassment.
  • She is terrible at saving money. I think right now there’s nobody in this house she DOESN’T owe money to. She loves getting “stuff,” although she isn’t very sentimental about giving or throwing it away when she is done.
  • Speaking of “stuff,” she begs to bring something along with her everywhere – to school, in the car, on an errand, etc. Usually it’s a little stuffy or mini figure of some sort but she’s not discriminating. When we were late to school one day and she BEGGED to grab something I gave her a tiny bottle of Purell that was lying around and she played with it like it was a story character on the playground! She always wants to be able to play some sort of make-believe game, and needs something to direct.
  • Her “meltdown” phase has really completely subsided. She can still huff a little, but is generally quite reasonable and accommodating to others.
  • Still so snuggly!!
Annabelle:
She finished up her first full year with the higher grade and I think it was the best year for her yet. She rocked it at school (A Honor Roll – the big kid version of Star Student), has worked her tail off in gymnastics (passed the “Blue Frog” level in record time due to nonstop home practice!) and archery (has managed to break 200 points with 30 arrows), is obsessed with the Hamilton Soundtrack (as is her sister – they can perform some songs from it, which are hilarious), and is as in love with her friends as always (pictured here are her two besties, Charlotte left and Roisin center):
Despite the soccer pic, Annabelle has decided to hang up her cleats AND her piano books in favor of her new beloved hobbies, as well as a new one that I wasn’t sure she would go for – learning Hebrew! She has decided she’d like to be bat mitzvah’ed, so it’s time to start learning her letters. I think in general Annabelle has “come into her own” quite a bit this year, which seems to be age appropriate. She is putting her foot down on certain subjects (like stopping piano and explaining to people that ask for a hug that she does not like to hug) and also showing a tiny bit of pre-teen attitude here and there (barely noticeable to the outside world, but I’m trying to prepare myself because I know it’ll grow over time!). At the end of 4th grade, here’s more about Annabelle:
  • She is a leader. She doesn’t like to be “on stage” but DOES like running the show and telling people what to do. And most feel very comfortable listening to her.
  • She is still *mostly* a goody two-shoes but not quite as much as before. At the end of the school year, she hid a boy’s toy to punish him from tormenting her and her friends. She got in trouble from the teacher and it left a (barely noticeable) mark on her otherwise perfect report card. She was in pieces, upset that this one act would stop her from getting into her chosen middle school, high school and college (which she chose in 2nd grade), so the good news is that she doesn’t really require any outside discipline!
  • Her fierceness by day has grown stronger, but so has her weakness at night. She now has a fairly severe phobia about being by herself in her room at night, which we’ve just started to tackle with an awesome therapist who is very confident she can help. Some nights she’ll spend up to 4 hours trying to fall asleep – luckily she doesn’t seem to need as much as others her age and handles herself just fine the next day.
  • She is still such a creator. Whether it’s a stop-motion animation of the musical Hamilton but with hamsters instead of people (Hamsterton) or cardboard swords and shields, she is constantly making something (and always making a mess).
  • Not so snuggly. But still so loving and still every bit our little girl.

Nine.4

This girl. There is nothing she cannot do. Except for sleep. Poor kid was falling back into rough sleep patterns at my last update, and got worse before what *hopefully* seems to be slowly getting better the past few days. She simply cannot turn off her brain, especially the scared part that can’t bare the thought of being the last person awake in the house. We’ve been working our way through a highly recommended sleep workbook, and I’ve even donated Eddie to the cause…

The good news is that the lack of sleep doesn’t seem to be affecting her physically – she is CRUSHING it at gymnastics, and has never been stronger! She can now do beautiful one handed cartwheels, 30+ second handstands (and even handstand-pushups against a wall), front and back handsprings and more. She has decided that this will be her last soccer season so she can focus more on her two favorite activities – gymnastics and archery (plus we’ve asked her to keep going on piano a little longer). I’m a huge fan of archery (since I get to shoot with her) and have even dusted off some very old basic gymnastics skills in support, much to her surprise!

Annabelle’s lack of sleep also hasn’t affected her mentally. In any given day she comes up with so many awesome ideas that I forget 90% of them, but just today she hit me with a really good group-texting app idea, a gum dispenser that comes with its own used-gum receptacle, and milk-cubes to cool off but not water down milk, to name a few. I saw her with a hot glue gun, some velcro, cut off ends of too-small tights, a muffin tin and 5 various-sized balls today, too, but there’s nothing strange about that when you live with Annabelle. I think as part of our continuing education this summer I’m going to have to teach her how to file a provisional patent. Between her ideas and Clementine’s potential for charming the VC community, I’m feeling more and more optimistic about Marc and my future 🙂