What a month! I’m a little late in posting – my excuse is 2 San Francisco trips, a girls weekend in Dallas, a nasty cough/bug, and most importantly, our first Davis Family international trip! Before I get into the details for each kid, just a note about that trip – what an adventure! I kind of love that the girls’ first passport stamp was not to some resort or English speaking vacation. We hit the experience head on visiting one of the largest cities in the world, full of beauty and danger and confusion and simplicity – Ciudad de Mexico, or CDMX as we now know it. And yes – Clementine survived only on the cheese inside of quesadillas (she didn’t even like real Mexican tortillas or… gasp… churros!), yes – we may have briefly found ourselves in the middle of a playground gang fight (note – some playgrounds are friendlier than others), and yes – Annabelle got an insane nosebleed in the middle of the city that actually shot blood out of her eyeball (did you know how high altitude and polluted CDMX is?). BUT we also climbed the 3rd tallest pyramid in the world, spent the afternoon on a canal “party boat” in Xochimilco, haggled our way through many mercados, ate some ridiculous $1 tacos, and practiced our Spanish to hilarious but generally useful effect.
Now onto these individual wonders:
Clementine, Seven and a Quarter
Keeping with the Mexico City intro, I was really impressed with how Clem handled this trip. She walked and climbed and rarely complained about being tired or subsisting on cheese or not getting certain souvenirs or treats. The Thornbughs joined us, and when those boys had near daily meltdowns about things not going their way, she rolled with it. There was the occasional tear or whine, but for the most part she knew her responsibility to “suck it up” and keep on keeping on.
In other Clementine news, this happened!! It’s a very light prescription, really only needed to watch movies or shows but since it was covered by insurance, we decided to get a pair made. She loves them!
On a more social/emotional front, Clem has been having a little trouble with some friends lately. Two examples – she has one friend who is a classic “mean girl” and queen bee – and calls Clem her best friend. This is EXACTLY what happened to Annabelle in K, 1 and 2 and is one of the reasons we were excited to have her skip a grade. This girl makes Clementine say she likes her best, stops talking to her for no reason, and even secretly causes damage to her things when she comes for playdates! We’ve spoken to the teacher and to other parents who have had trouble with her, but it really weighs on Clementine because when things are good, they get along great! We’re hoping the situation will diffuse and we can make sure not to be in the same class for 2nd grade, but the complex social conversations coming out of it have shown a real struggle, especially because Clementine is such an empath.
Another example is that some boys she was playing with stuck a penny in an electrical outlet, causing flames and scorching! The boys’ parents scolded them, but Clementine was horrified and told me it brought up “gramma feelings” of how worried and scared she was that her buddy could’ve gotten really hurt. She was so scarred by the experience that she asked if she could draw a picture of what happened to get out her feelings. How new age is that?
I don’t remember 7 being so complicated. But I’m so proud of our wise girl for navigating the emotions and intricacies as they come!
Annabelle, Ten and a Quarter
I know I’m late on the post, but if I hadn’t waited I wouldn’t be able to announce that Annabelle just lost her LAST BABY TOOTH. Everyone celebrates the first one, but the last one definitely brings mixed emotions! I guess our baby really is growing up. She even fit into grown-up glasses at Warby Parker!
Speaking of growing up, the most anticipated decision of the year has been made – Annabelle is headed to Kealing Magnet Middle School in the fall! Kealing is the most academically rigorous school, focusing on all subjects but known for their math and science opportunities. Marc and I are sure this is the right school for Annabelle, but it has been a tough process because most of her best girl friends are going to different schools (a lot of them going to the same one). FOMO is TOUGH at this age, but she is handling it well.
In other growing up news, Annabelle just had the “puberty talk” with her friends (it’s not taught in Texas public schools so one of the moms organized it on the weekend). YIKES! Granted, most of these girls are a little older since she skipped a grade, but still… it’s on the horizon. She has even started wearing athletic bras under her clothes! Ack!
All that said, she’s still mostly the quirky kid we know so well. For example, she’s currently on a mission to get a pet rat, and you should see the work she is putting in (stepping up chores, giving use presentations, trying to train Eddie). Our current party line is “no more living things till the fish die.” After that, we’ll move to “no more living things till we see whether you actually have time to care for them in middle school.” I’m not sure where we’ll go from there. I hate to say it, but her lobbying has started to convince me! That should show you what a great negotiator she is:
We’ll see where that goes. In the meantime, we are busy wrapping up the school year (girls), working our tails off (parents), and looking forward to all of the chaos and fun the summer will bring!